Social Media burnout

I'm sorry it's taken awhile to post something new. I have had a very busy week with my new website up and running and continuing my courses. I never knew how exhausting it could be keeping up with all the social media everyone is into these days!

I'm no spring chicken, but I thought I knew all about all the avenues out there that you could "market" yourself with.  Was I wrong! I have a website, a blog, a Pinterest account, facebook, business facebook, linkedin and gave a pass to Twitter. Now I find that there is Tumblr and imgfave and who knows what else!! I can't keep up and they keep making new ones.

My whole intention in getting involved with these sites is to market my business but guess what? I'm getting so hooked on posting my 'pins' or my thoughts that I find precious little time to do what I should be doing. I think I may have to ignore these other social sites for awhile,  and re-channel my energies into my true love...genealogy.

Found this on one of the sites:

I must admit though, I do find very inspirational quotes and images that make my day.

via Pinterest from the net

The above is a beautiful example of how you can make your family history come alive and display it in a wonderful way.  It's like writing a book about your family and you already have all the information ready to include..and you know what I say.....every family has a story!!!!

I also say a quote that says,  Genealogy 

   " Preserving your past, Inspiring the future"

This is how I feel. I hope that someone in my future family is inspired by the history of their past family. That I record....correctly...how they came to be, where they came from, how they lived and what interesting stories they gave us. I hope I put human faces and feelings on all the people who's blood runs in my veins and I want to do that for anyone else who asks me for help with THEIR histories.

Making connections is important

So about 2 hours ago I had a lovely chat with a 3rd cousin of my husband who lives in the UK. She's 79 and never married. I found her in 2008 when I was searching for any Moffatt relations who may be living in the UK as our branch is the only one out of 5 sons who were born in Liverpool in the 1860s to come to Canada.

She doesn't own a computer and so we've communicated via telephone and snail mail. It's very strange to think that writing a letter is a 'difficult and slow' way to keep in touch. I mean who really sends letters anymore? It kind of cool though, to receive a hand written letter from someone you've never met who is fascinated by the same family history! She gave me all kinds of information about the 4 older brothers who stayed in the UK which allowed me to fill in some blanks on my  tree.

What do I already know?

What sources do I already have?

What do my relatives know?

What has already been done?

Where do I start?

Who can help me?

This is a perfect example of how getting to know your elderly relatives works. It's also an example of how important it is to find other people or organizations who can help you along in your search for family history. I've received help from such countries as Tasmania, Australia, England, Wales, Italy, Antigua, Scotland and the United States. People from universities, archives, societies, blogsites, websites, museums, and even book stores have helped me in the past. Everyday people who just want to pay it forward on genealogy chat forums or who are related in some distant way have made me so grateful to be in this field. It never ceases to amaze me how generous people are in genealogy and it's a given that we try to share as much information as we can with each other whenever possible.

So collaborate as much as possible with organizations or people who you think may be able to help. I get a special thrill out of knowing that I've helped someone solve a mystery in their tree.

Be a hunter gatherer!!

The one who started it all

Eunice and Sam Moore

Firstly, I wanted to introduce you to the woman who got me started in genealogy. She didn't do it intentionally. She just answered a very basic question that I asked her. I said, "What part of Scotland did you come from?"

With that, she began to tell me all about her childhood and losing her father in World War I, travelling to Canada as a 10 year old with her widowed mother and 2 siblings and what her own parents were like. I seemed to have awakened long lost memories buried deep inside her. Memories that she seemed tickled to be able to relate to someone who cared. And I really did care. I was fascinated. I didn't know then, but that moment is etched in my mind as the true moment that genealogy became my calling.

I asked her if she could tell me more and I wrote down some facts. Now remember, this was 1984 and computers were not household items then. She had remembered the name of the ship that they immigrated on and where she worked as a young woman, how she met her future husband who was also an immigrant from Ireland who had lost his father in the war, and how she lost her sister at 22 years old in childbirth. I sat there mesmerized as she spoke to me. The sorrow of losing a parent and the voyage to another country with little money and no other family there...losing her only sister. How sad. Yet, she was a tiny white haired spunky lady,  full of life with sparkly blue eyes. She would always have a cup of tea ready and would say little Scottish "ditties" that I found so amusing.

Eunice Speed Moore lived to be 94. I was so blessed to have known her and to me she was like a surrogate grandmother because my own 2 grandmothers were in Italy and I hardly knew them. She filled me with the wonder of family history, the love of family stories and the joy of sharing them with others. Thank you Nan.

What every family should know and DO!

I love to go to auctions. They are exciting and you get to find treasures at a fraction of the retail cost. Most of the items I've purchased have been pre-loved but are in wonderful shape and are useful. The saddest thing I see on a regular basis are very old family photos. It hurts me to see boxes of beautiful old family portraits and memorabilia sitting on a table with no one interested (why would they be?) and going for next to nothing. Most are snapped up for the frames or because people collect photos of certain places or eras. They are not really interested in the people in the photo unless it's an unusual shot. Those people were someone. They were babies, children, husbands, wives, grandparents. They were loved and mourned and lived lives that were interesting. How sad that after all those years they are discarded because someone did not take the time to do the most important thing.
Point one: They didn't record their names and the date on the back of the photos.

To most people, this photo would mean nothing. To the family though, it speaks volumes. This happens to be a photo of two brothers. When they were younger, they came to Canada. One brother left to go to the United States where he settled with his wife and had a family , while the other stayed in Canada and did the same. This is before the internet, email, even long distance phone calling. They would maybe have written to each other occasionally. This photo is of a reunion of the two. Luckily, I know the story and have recorded it for future generations who will have no idea who these two men were, how they are connected and what they mean to them.

If you have a chance and you have old photos, write whatever you know about the people in them on the back of them. If you don't know who the people are, the next thing you need to do is find an elderly member of your family and ask them. For the digital era and online photo albums, you need to name your photos with distinguishing info or keep a separate journal.

This takes me to point two. Get to know you older family members. They are fountains of information. They will most likely know who the people are and tell you all kinds of amazing stories about them. The trick is to get to them before they forget or worse still, pass on.

This is the back of a hand coloured photo that was taken in 1878. Someone took the time to name the person in the photo. It says "Grandpa Moffatt (John Henry Cornelius Boysdale Hender Moffatt) and then there is an amazing note from whoever took the photo to the person who  hand coloured it with instructions about what colour the child's hair was, his eyes and his outfit.  It is an absolute priceless photo and was only discovered during a family reunion. Thankfully someone 100 years ago decided to record the name of this child. If they hadn't, I doubt very much that it would be in existence today.

Point three: If you have the chance to, keep a journal of your family history. Family stories, family legends, people's details, questions you'd like answered and basically everything you know about your family and where they came from. As a genealogist, it sometimes amazes me when I encounter people who don't know anything past their own parents. They sometimes don't even know their grandparents names. If you ever want to have your family history done, you need to have at least a basic knowledge of 3 generations back from yourself (which would be your grandparents). Where they were born, when and their names. It's much easier to find information about them if we have at least this information to begin with. Were they born in the US, Canada, England etc. What city did they live in ? Were they born there? What year were they born or married?

Sometimes you just have to dream

via Pinterest

I love the colour of the paint in this office. I'm in the process of making my office more 'official' and I think I'll go with this. What do you think?

via Pinterest

Having just brought home a new puppy, we've decided to put a runner up our stairs (that, and the fact I keep falling down them!). Our stairs look just like these. The pattern is suble and elegant.

via Pinterest

 

This photo is so inspiring to me. We are so blessed to have a cottage on the lake to escape to. It's doesn't look like this but everything else in the photo is identical. Maybe one day....

I'm so excited about my new website that will be launched in the next week. It's a big step for me because I've been plugging away as a genealogist for a long time but now I feel really official. With the blog started and my Pinterest addiction (check it out, it's under Sandra Moffatt Genealogical Research),  Facebook and LinkedIn, I feel totally "social media" updated and ready to go. I just can't seem to get into Twitter. Maybe I'm too old, or maybe I talk too much for 1 sentence tweets.

I love all aspects of history and genealogy, but on the other side of the coin, I adore interior decorating. I never studied it or worked as a decorator, but I worked in the industry for over 12 years. It was so much fun and fed the "artist" part of my personality. It's an industry full of creative, colourful, adventurous people who "paint" their masterpieces onto people's homes and into their lives through design and decor. I think if I were younger I'd try to do both but I just can't seem to see an Interior Decorator who spends hours in libraries, archives and on the net researching working out so I'll stick to sharing my loves of all that is design/decor on this blog.

Please feel free to share any ideas you have on anything you find interesting here. I'd love to hear from you.

Well, this is my first post on my new blog and I'm feeling quite excited AND intimidated. I am also launching my new website in the next week so it's all steam ahead!
I decided to make a blog because I've discovered that I needed a forum for my thoughts and I wanted to share them with you to get feedback and inspiration.

For those of you who don't know anything about Genealogy, I'm hoping that this blog opens up the wonderful world of discovering your family history to you. It's an amazing trip but I warn you- it's addictive! I started 30 years ago and the one thing I discovered (much to my delight) is that it never ends.

 In this photo there I have a great, great-great, and a great-great-great grandfather!

This is a family reunion shot the shows family members finding themselves on a chart.

I'm a little OCD when it comes to details which is a good thing in this business. It also helps that the detective type of research involved in genealogy is fun for me. When you spend hours, weeks, or even years searching for that 1 piece of information that will solve a mystery, it's like winning a lottery. The excitement is unexplainable. The funny thing is, that most people don't get it. My favourite line I've heard is when someone finds out what I do is " You research dead people?"...hahaha. I find that there are 3 types of people out there when it comes to genealogy; the ones that are totally uninterested in their ancestors and don't care, the ones that never thought about it and would like to find out and the ones who are fascinated and feel the need to know where they came from, how they got here, to this place and who the people in their past where...what their names were, where they lived, and what they did for a living.

Some families have fascinating famous ancestors with life stories that you could make a movie out of, while others lead quiet lives working on farms and struggled to survive. Either way, the families have a story. A story worth telling about lives worth living to bring us to where we are today, and that's why I do what I do. To honour these people and to leave a legacy for the ones living today to give to their children and grandchildren. I feel we should never forget where we came from. There are cultures that honour their ancestors, like the Native Americans, some African countries, some Asian countries and even European and Mexicans who celebrate the Day of the Dead.

I'm going to share with you how to start searching, how to connect with elderly relatives to get information and you can join me on my journey as I travel through other people's histories. It's so much fun, and I hope you come along for the ride!